Thursday 13 July 2023

Tinubu promises 12m families will receive N8,000 for six months







President Bola Ahmed Tinubu says about 12 million households will get N8,000 over a period of six months to ameliorate the hardships faced by Nigerians as a result of subsidy removal.


In a letter to the House of Representatives read by Speaker Tajudeen Abbas during plenary on Thursday, Tinubu said it was designed to enable indigent and vulnerable Nigerian people to cope with the cost of meeting basic needs.


The letter waiting for approval of additional financing for the national social safety net programme scaled up by the National Assembly.

The President said this would have a multiplier effect on about 60 million individuals.


In order to ascertain the credibility of the process, he said digital transfers would be made directly to beneficiaries’ accounts.


The President’s move was to cushion the effect of the fuel subsidy removal which he announced on the day of his inauguration on May 29 in Abuja.


Vanguard recalled that the removal of fuel subsidy caused the prices of petrol products to jump over 200% and an increase in food prices and transportation.


But, in a letter sent to the House of Representatives, Tinubu asked that the 2022 Supplementary Appropriations Act be amended to provide N500 billion to fund palliative measures against the impact of fuel subsidy removal.


President Tinubu is seeking to extract N500 billion from the N819,536,937,813 supplementary budget.


The immediate past president Muhammadu Buhari introduced the supplementary budget in 2022 for capital projects due to the impact of the floods on farmlands and road infrastructure.


In a similar gesture to improve the living conditions of poor Nigerians grappling with the pangs of poverty caused by hardships, he also on Thursday, Tinubu wrote to the federal lawmakers seeking the approval of the Senate for a $800 million palliative loan from the World Bank.


“You may also wish to know that the purpose of the facility is to expand coverage of shock-responsive safety net supports for all and vulnerable Nigerians and the cost of meeting basic needs,” Tinubu said in the letter.


The President clarified that, “Under the conditional cash transfer window of the programme, the Federal Government of Nigeria will transfer the sum of N8,000 a month to 12 million poor and low-income households for a period of six months with a multiplying effect on about 60 million individuals.”

Wednesday 12 July 2023

J. Martins announces appointment as Abia gov’s Special Assistant on Entertainment
















Popular singer and producer Martins Okey Justice, aka J. Martins, has been appointed as Special Assistant on Tourism And Entertainment to the Governor of Abia State, Dr Alex Otti.


The ‘Cool Temper’ crooner announced the good news via his Twitter handle on Wednesday.


J. Martins wrote: “Greetings everyone. Got up early morning at 3 am with multiple calls and congratulations messages. I have been appointed as SA on Entertainment and Tourism to Abia State Governor.”

Tinubu will appoint between 36, 42 ministers – Omisore


The National Secretary of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC), Senator Iyiola Omisore said President Bola Tinubu will appoint between 36 and 42 Ministers. 

Omisore disclosed this while speaking on Channels Television’s Politics Today.


He said, “The Constitution says a minister per state, that is 36 and one per zone making 42, at the prerogative of the President. So it can either make 36 minimum or 42 the highest.


“We are still consulting with the party, we are looking at the structure of the ministries. We are likely to structure the ministries to reflect Nigerians’ yearnings today, either merging some, rebranding some, naming some just to gather the agenda of Renewed Hope,” he said.


When asked if Tinubu will constitute a Government of National Unity with members of the opposition parties like ex-Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Wike, of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Omisore said the decision is at the President’s discretion.


He, however, noted that consultations between the President and the ruling party are ongoing regarding the final ministerial list.


Omisore said, “There are technocrats who are politicians too. Some of us, we are professionals. We read to the pinnacle of academics. So we are techno-politicos.

“By the time we look at the baskets together and what will pay Nigerians better, we can come out with a combined cabinet that you will be happy about,” he said.


The constitution mandates the president to appoint a minister from each state and one each from geo-political zones.

Recall that in his first term, former President Muhammadu Buhari appointed 36 ministers, but nominated 42 ministers when he was reelected in 2019.

Saturday 4 January 2020

4 Things You should Never tell a Man










4 Things You should never Tell a man

1. Do you think she's cute?

If you and your boyfriend cross paths with a woman known to both of you, and you notice that he looks at her a lot l, never ask him that question.
If he says no, you will be angry because you do not believe him and if he says yes, a fit of rage will come.

Better to avoid meaningless worries and make sure nothing happened.

2. When do we meet again?

The first date with a man you like, you have a great time but at the moment of saying goodbye he still has not hinted at anything for a second meeting, do you ask him when to meet again?  Don't!

If he has not told you yet l, it is because he is not convinced so better avoid that uncomfortable moment for you.

A man really interested in you will surely propose to you.

3. Have you slept with her?

Do not ask your partner about things from the past, so that the ghost of the past and insecurities that come with them persecute you internally.

4. My ex-boyfriend did the same as you. Mistake! 

Dont make any kind of comparisons between the current boyfriend and an ex-boyfriend.

Talking about an ex-boyfriend, be it good or bad, means that you are still thinking about him or that you are still disgusted. That will make him feel in the background. Would you like him to compare you with the women of his past? I bet, you would hate it.

Wednesday 1 January 2020

44 Things All Girls wish their boyfriends know










1. When you break her heart,the pain never really
goes away.

2. When she misses you, she's hurting inside.

3. When she says it's over, she still wants you to be
her's.

4. When she walks away from you mad,follow her.

5. When she stares at your mouth,kiss her.

6. When she pushes or hits you,grab her tight and
don't let go.

7. When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and tell her you love her 

8. When she ignores You, give her your attention.

9. When she pulls away, pull her back.

10. When you see her at her worst, tell her she's
beautiful.

11. When you see her crying,just hold her and don't
say a word

12. When you see her walking,sneak up and hug her
waist from behind
13. When she's scared,protect her

14. When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt her
head up and kiss her

15. When she steals your favorite jacket,let her keep it for a night

16. When she teases you, tease her back and make
her laugh

17. When she doesn't answer for a long time reassure her that everything is okay

18. When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up with the truth

19. When she says she that she really like you, she nnmgbmreally does more than you could understand

20. When she grabs your hands,hold her's and play
with her fingers

21. When she bumps into you,bump into her back and make her laugh

22. When she tells you a secret,keep it safe and untold

23. When she looks at you in your eyes,dont look back until she does

24. Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything

25. Don't let her have the last word

26. Don't call her hot,but gorgeous or beautiful is so
much better

27. Say you love her more than she could ever love
you

28. Argue that she is the best girl ever 29. When she's mad,hug her tight and don't let go

30. When she says she's ok, don't believe it,talk to her, about it because 10 yrs later she'll still remember it

31. Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to tell her you love her.

32. Call her before you sleep and after you wake up 

33. Treat her like she's all that matters to you

34. Don't ignore her when she's out with you and your friends.

35. Stay up all night when she's sick

36. Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite
show even when you think it's stupid

37. Let her into Your world

38. Let her wear your clothes.

39. When she's bored or sad, hang out with her

40. Let her know she's important

41. Kiss her in the pouring rain

42. When she runs up at you crying,the first thing you say is" whose ass am I kicking today baby?

43. After she reads this, she hopes one day you will
read it too

44. When ever she reads something like this, she must
surely like & share.
Girls am I making sense?

Tuesday 31 December 2019

Things to do after unprotected sex








Contrary to many people’s belief, there are circumstances when condoms break or leak during sexual intercourse. If you have a one night stand with a sex partner or girlfriend without using a condom, you may be afraid have had a sexually transmitted disease. After a “quickie” or unprotected sex, there are a few things you could do to avoid complicated sexual diseases. Below are highlights of what could be done immediately after unprotected sex:

URINATION

Within the first thirty minutes of unprotected sexual intercourse, weeing can help get rid of bacteria you may have contracted. In a bid to achieve this, ensure you urinate well shortly after unprotected sex. If however you do not feel any urge to urinate, drink as much as possible water. It also helps to flush bacteria out of your body system through the urethra. If bacteria gets into the urethra for a long time without being flushed away, it usually leads to urinary tract infections; which either makes you to feel pains while urinating or you end up urinating more than often.

EMERGENCY

CONTRACEPTIVE PILLS (ECP)

Females are usually on the most dangerous side when we discuss about unprotected sex. After an unprotected sex, you need to use the emergency contraceptive pills (ECP) which works effectively, even 72 hours after sex.

INTRA UTERINE DEVICE METHOD

As discussed, an ECP can still be much effective till 3 days after sex. However, for a reason or the other, a victim of unprotected sex may not be able to get the pills around within those 72 hours. In such case, a Intra uterine device (IUD) will be the next line of action to adopt. The IUD is made of copper, which is inserted into the uterus of a female. It stays for 5 days in the uterine region after sex. The IUD is the most reliable means of getting rid of prospective sexually transmitted disease.

CONDUCT STI TEST

If after 5 days, you are still not able to access any of the three methods highlighted above, you may resolve to conducting a STI test. The test can be conducted, after two weeks of having an unprotected sex. Usually, a sexually transmitted disease comes with symptoms. It could start from change in color of urine, eyes color, change in stature etc.

CONDUCT PREGNANCY TEST

Usually, pregnancy tests are irrelevant and insignificant if they are taken before three weeks. After an unprotected sex, and you have been seeing some symptoms which have been putting you in a doubting state? Wait for three weeks. Three weeks after unprotected sex, you’ll definitely receive a report to know if truly it is pregnancy or an ailment.

In conclusion, it is always a good advice to take contraceptive measure before sexual intercourse. If you wear condom as your contraception and you have some slip ups with it, then you need to adopt a new contraception. There are very effective contraception, for instance, UID and implant, and these methods can last up to ten years. However, this measure only protects against unwanted pregnancy. In a bid to avoid contraction of STDs, use condoms as well.

Monday 30 December 2019

Types of girls with whom you as a man need to use a condom. Number 2, 6, and 10 will shock you.








A condom is a thin piece of rubbery material that fits over a man’s private part (male genitals) during sex. When used correctly, it prevents HIV, as well as pregnancy and most STIs. The most popular and common type of condom is made from a thin latex (rubber).

Although some STIs may also be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact (e.g. genital scars), condoms still minimize the risk of many of these infections.

There are different types of girls with whom you as a man absolutely need to use a condom for during sexual intercourse. The list are as follows;

1. The girl that has tattoo on her body.

2. The girl that turns off her phone whenever she's with you.

3. The girl that drinks beer like 2-3 bottles. My brother use protection for your inner peace.

4. Be minding of any girl that take your shirt off by herself.

5. If she proposes to give you the pipe.

6. The girl that doesn't ask or request for a condom before sex.

7. The girl that has short hair and also dyed it.

8. If she wears tight jeans to your house. My brother double the protection.

9. The girl that doesn't sigh or give any "NO"reaction when you touch her. My man you need to triple the hell out of that protection.

10. The girl that lives alone. This is their top boss. You need to be extra protected.

12. she travels frequently to to go to bukavu, Kigali, oicha, blessed, Abidjan, yaoundé, Kampala, butembo and others while she doesn't have the family there.

13. If the girl works in a callbox / hair salon, bar.

14. If she is a student but already has a 10-Year-old child, my brother use condom.

15. If the girl is the type that loves and wears g-strings.

16. If she is under 30 years old but has knowledge at the police level.

17. If she's the type that wears pearls/ waistbeads on the hip.

18. If she screams in the streets.

19. If she has a lot of male friends on facebook.

20. If she supports an influential politician and wants to do politics.

21. If she has a ring on her nose and chain at the foot.

22. If she likes to say that all men are the same.

23. If she takes this post personally, triple the condoms my brother.

Thank you for your attention.

Sunday 29 December 2019

If a Man Does These Things For You, Never Let Him Go









Men are expected to be manly, no matter what the news might say about gender roles. This world is full of toxic men and hey, good men are not easy to come by. So, if you are lucky to have that ‘one of a kind’ type of guy, grab his hand and never let it go. In fact, run to some island and live your happily ever after life. Now, if your man does these 7 things, you should never let him go;

1. Sacrifices for Your Sake

Everyone has their life to get busy with. But if he can afford to sacrifice some time from his tight schedule just to be with you, you will never regret keeping him.

2. No Trust Issues

Marriages are breaking every day due to unfaithfulness. If you can trust him fully with your love, secrets and money issues, you might never find such a man again if you let him go.

3. He Supports You

Instead of supporting you, some men will try to bring you down whenever they see you are rising up the success ladder because they feel threatened. A man who stands by you and pushes you to achieve your dreams is a rare kind and you can’t afford to lose him.

4. Respects You

Not every man can respect you as a woman. If he treats you with respect and does not in any way demean you, keep him close to your bosom.

5. Loves You

People get into relationships with various intentions. However, if you are in a relationship with a man who truly loves you and you have no doubt about it, you are one lucky woman.

6. Listens to You

Every woman’s dream is to have a man who can listen to all her worries, concerns and updates about the happenings in her life. If he spares his time to listen to all you have to say without complaining, hold on to him.

7. Makes You Feel Like a Queen

You are a queen and you are confident about every bit of you. However, your man has the responsibility to compliment you every now and then and treat you like the queen you are.

Borussia Dortmund beat Manchester United to Haaland signing











Borussia Dortmund have signed Erling Haaland, beating Manchester United and Juventus in the race to secure the 19-year-old's signature.

Haaland joins the Bundesliga club from Austrian side FC Salzburg, with his deal set to keep him at Dortmund until 2024. Sources have told ESPN that Haaland moves for an initial €20 million, which was his release clause.

Haaland's move is a coup for Dortmund, with the striker enjoying a stunning season so far. He has scored 28 goals in 22 games this season, with eight coming in the Champions League, and he became the first teenager to score in the first five matchdays of the competition.

Sources told ESPN that United made an enquiry of Haaland, who was also linked to RB Leipzig and Juventus, and Ole Gunnar Solskjaer -- Haaland's former manager at Molde -- also travelled to Salzburg to meet with the 19-year-old's advisors earlier in December.

But sources also told ESPN that United's interest in the player cooled when it became clear that any deal would involve a share of potential future sale profits between Haaland's father, Alfie, and advisor Mino Raiola. United also would not accept a demand for Haaland to be given a buyout clause for him to move to the club. Sources have said the release clause mooted was as low as €50m.

The performances of teenager Mason Greenwood this season have also led to United believing that they can invest in the team in alternative areas, despite an acknowledgement that Haaland has the ability to become a major star.

A source told ESPN that Raiola advised Haaland to go to Germany, but the final decision was left to Haaland and his father.

Upon the announcement of his move to Dortmund, Haaland said: "I had intense talks with the club hierarchy, especially with Hans-Joachim Watzke, Michael Zorc and coach Lucien Favre.

"I had the feeling from an early stage that I really wanted to join this club and play in front of over 80,000 supporters. I can't wait to get started."

Dortmund sporting director Zorc said: "We can expect an ambitious, athletic and physical centre forward with a proven nose for goal.

"At 19, Erling is still at the start of what will hopefully be a massive career."

A statement released by Dortmund on Sunday read: "Haaland will join the first-team squad on Jan. 3 before departing for winter training camp in Marbella the following day."

List Of Foods That Can Help You Gain Big Butt









Having a big butt has become the dream of every girl, and a lot of celebrities combine rigorous workouts with super foods to help. Working out in the gym without eating properly will hinder the growth of the butt size that you could have had by eating some certain foods.

Every girl's body is different and luckily, society is slowly starting to shift towards celebrating all body types, specifically, those with a big booty. The latest body goal in the last decade has been this – big booty, small waist. Girls go to extreme lengths to get their booty nice and big.

If you are trying to get a fuller bigger butt without getting under the knife then you must read this article. Getting a bigger butt is not hard if you know what to eat and what to do.

Proteins are one of the classes of food will help make your butt bigger, as it helps build your muscle. Here are the foods that make your butt bigger you should incorporate into your diet.

What To Eat To Get A Bigger Butt

There are a lot of butt exercises that help you tone and round your backside: squats, lunges, glute bridges, etc. But what about foods that help you add some muscle mass on your behind?

Here are some best foods that help you increase your butt size:

1. Nuts:

To start your butt growth journey, you need to pack on the nuts e.g cashews, almonds, and peanuts. Nuts are one of the best foods that make your butt bigger. Most nuts have calories serving of 135 so eating nuts daily will put you on the right track, but if you don’t like eating nuts, as a person, you can eat peanuts or try mixing with raisins.

Fortunately, you can buy most nuts from the store “pre-shelled” so that you don’t have to crack them open.

Here is a list of some of the most commonly consumed nuts:

Almonds - I use the Barney Butter Almond Butter Snack Pack because it’s made with premium, blanched California almonds for an ultra-smooth, no grit texture

Brazil nuts
Cashews
Hazelnuts
Macadamia nuts
Pecans
Pine nuts
Pistachios
Walnuts

Although peanuts are technically legumes like peas and beans, they are often referred to as nuts because they have similar nutrition profiles and characteristics.

2. Avocado:

Avocado is an incredibly nutritious fruit high in healthy fats, monounsaturated fat. A lot of research has shown that it has powerful beneficial effects on health. This amazing exotic fruit will help you grow a bigger butt while it provides your body with a lot of potassium, fibers and different minerals and vitamins. Avocado is rich in monounsaturated fat which is the perfect and healthiest fat for your body.
You can either eat it raw or add it to a sandwich or to your salad. You should, however, be careful about eating too much avocado as it can make you gain some weight.

3. Greek Yogurt:

Greek yogurt has more fat than regular yogurt which will make you gain a lot of butt weight. But again you must be careful with eating too much Greek yogurt because high levels of fat consumption can be directly related to different heart diseases.

Instead, make sure that you eat it in moderation and that you opt for the low-fat kind.

4. Eggs:

Eggs are protein banks so you are giving your body a lot of benefits when you eat eggs. They will also help you grow a bigger butt but you must be careful about eating too many eggs per day because they are rich in cholesterol.

5. Lean Beef:

Lean beef is rich in proteins that would help you build your butt muscles. You must consume some amount of lean beef if you want to have a fuller, bigger butt.

6. Sweet Potatoes:

Sweet potato has carbohydrates that most people tend to shy away from when trying to lose weight, but it is also a great way getting your butts out. As stated with other foods, eat in moderation But if you are trying to get a bigger and fuller butt then you must definitely eat more potatoes, they are an excellent source of Vitamin C, Vitamin B6, and potassium.

7. Brown Rice:

Brown rice is a great source of healthy fibers that will help you feel great and healthy while making your butt look bigger.

8. Dried Fruits:

Dried fruits contain more calories than regular fruits because they have a higher sugar level. If you want to avoid weight gain then you should stay away from them, but if you want to have a bigger butt then you should definitely eat more of those.

9. Turkey:

Turkey is another source of lean meat that is full of protein and will provide the body with what it needs to grow a rounder and bigger butt.

10. Protein Shakes:

These are the best to have after your squats if you want to help your muscles heal for a bigger fuller butt. They will provide your muscles with more proteins and you will start to see the results.

11. Berries:

These are full of antioxidants and useful enzymes and vitamins that are essential for a healthy body. They will also help you put on a lot of weight in your butt while keeping the rest of your body looking and feeling great.

12. Tomatoes:

These are antioxidants banks that are also full of fibers and nutrients. Adding tomatoes to every meal will definitely make your butt look and feel great.

13. Leafy Green Vegetables:

Leafy green vegetables are rich in different vitamins and minerals and are essential if you want to stay healthy. But they are extremely important if you want to have a toned butt too.

14. Beans:

Although many people try to avoid beans because they can cause bloating, the truth is that they are great sources for amino acids and plant-based proteins. They will also make your butt look bigger and fuller.

15. Skinless Chicken Breasts:

Skinless Chicken is another food that should be included in your diet as it is a source of low carbs and its packed with proteins and will also make your butt look great. You can have a healthy meal with chicken breasts that will provide your body with essential protein and will increase your butt size.

Some of these foods are healthier than others, but they’re all good for your butt. Add them to your daily meals to get all the health benefits they provide and to sculpt a firmer butt.

Man Dies during Sex Competition After Finishing The 7th Round










The deseased identified only as Davy reportedly died on his sex contender also identified as loveth.

He reportedly took Loveth to a popular hotel located in Ikotun area of Lagos after a debate about which of the two would emerge victorious in a marathon sex.

While the deceased believed he has sufficient prowess to make Loveth run for her life, she also insisted that the deceased would not withstand her ability to accommodate many rounds of hot sex.

Davy trusted himself so much that he staked N50,000, gingering Loveth to rise up to the occasion.
When the ‘competition’ got underway, Davy was on top of his game and was able to chalk six good rounds.

However, he could not survive the seventh round as he collapsed and died on the woman.

Loveth who became alarmed called for help and the hotel manager handed her over to the Ikotun Police Division for investigation, while the corpse of the deceased was deposited at an undisclosed hospital for autopsy.

Loveth was later transferred to the SCIID Panti Yaba where she narrated the entire incident.

Sources say the autopsy report will determine what charges would be proffered against her, if there is any.

Four Signs That Will Let You Know You're Dating a Runs Girl, Run Away If You Notice No 2 and 4











As we all know, this life is full of different kinds of girls – the good, the bad and the ugly. With every girl trying to put up their best behaviour in the dating, it’s hard for a guy to figure out the true character of his woman. Nowadays, girls are becoming more daring and ambitious, going all the way to explore their womanhood in an attempt to acquire everything they can lay their hands on. Most girls out there, all they care about is money. They throw decorum to the wind and go out on a manhunt, looking for men that can give them financial satisfaction in exchange for their bodies. Below are four signs to tell that you are dating a runs babe;

1. She’s Always Off to Unknown Places

The world is moving at a fast pace and it’s great to keep up with it especially when we are moving around for productive courses. Your girlfriend always has to be somewhere.

She always has an excuse to give to you for every trip, but you don’t seem to know anyone she use to go to. And when she returns, she doesn’t show you pictures of the people she had gone to see. If she took any pictures while on her runs trip, she’d delete them before returning home.

2. She Has Strange Names On Her Contact List

We don’t keep the phone numbers of random people on our phones. Every name saved is of use to us in one way or the other. The manner in which these names are saved say a lot about the people. When she saves numbers with funny names like Brother Lagos, Uncle Kenya, Doctor VI, Engineer Ghana etc, you need to probe further to know who those people are.

3. She Exposes Her Body on Social Media

Well, there’s nothing wrong with being active and expressive on social media, after all, it’s the social media era. But when a woman is in a serious relationship yet constantly exposes her body in a sexually suggestive manner on social media, it’s most likely that she’s selling her “market.” She’s putting herself out there so that potential “clients” can contact her for her services.

4. She Has An Unknown Job

Gone are the days when women sit back and watch men do all the work to cater to their needs. Nowadays, women go out and work for their own money, and they are doing very well at it. Your girlfriend claim to be part of the “Miss Independent” team, but you can’t figure out what exactly she does for a living. You have probably asked her about it and she told you about her fictional job, but the thing is, there isn’t any concrete evidence about her work. She goes out for work but you don’t know her office.

5 Ways To Win A Man's Heart Without Sleeping With Him










Winning a man's heart has never been easy for ladies, as they get their emotions broken, most often. However, these are major ways to win a man's heart:

1• Cook For Him : An adage about winning a man over is through his stomach, is true and real. Cooking for someone is to cater basic human needs. Food is parts of the basic needs of life. So, cooking for your man everyday, most especially when the meal is dealious will make a lady win a man.

2• Accept Him For Who He Is: This point is very important because a lady can't change a man completely, but can help him to change his ways, little by little. Accepting a man for who he is, mean a lady needs to understand her man so that both of them will be able to live comfortable.

3• Make Him Laugh: Making a man laugh is very essential in a relationship.

4• Tell Him A Secret:Telling a man your deepest secret has a vital role to play in a relationship. Telling him a secret will actually make a man to see his lady as more than a friend, and wanting himself to trust her.

5• Accepting His Family: If a lady wants to win her man's heart, she needs to see his family as her family in order for their love to grow stronger.

With these five methods, a lady should be to keep her man, without the fear of losing him to someone else.

If you know other ways to keep a man, kindly share them in the comments section.

Saturday 28 December 2019

4 Things A Woman Should Never Say To A Man she Loves









Communication in a relationship is very important and it is a relevant part of a relationship that its quality and quantity could decide if people will continue feeling good about dating each other, or if they’d become so dissatisfied and disconnected from the whole thing.

So you want to be careful how you come at your partner with certain talks. Here are a list of things a woman should avoid saying to her partner at all costs.

I regret you coming into my life

Except he absolutely deserves it and you’re 100% sure you no longer want to continue the relationship, do not say this.

If you don’t mean it and you’re just angry, this isn’t one of those things you throw out there and try to apologise away later.

”Femi” is a better man that you’ll ever be

Maybe the Yoruba demon has gotten into you, lol. But making a comparison between your partner and anyone else is always a recipe for disaster. Avoid it like a plague.

I’m sorry but…

Saying sorry can be an incredibly good thing in relationships as it helps mend fences and restore peace but that’s only when done right.

Every time you try to apologise and a ‘but’ follows ‘I’m sorry’, you have negated the apology. Don’t do it.

I’m just managing you

No one wants to feel like they’re being loved out of pity. Also, your man doesn’t want to get the vibe of being a step down for you.