Healthy relationships are a two way street, Its about two different people trying to work towards being the best they for themselves and each other. We all want good partners that we believe will be good for us and compliment our characters. And at the end of the day, we are solely responsible for the kind of people we allow into our lives.
So for all the men out there,here are six types of girls you should never ever allow into your lives except if they are your personal preferences or you are wholeheartedly looking for a soul crashing train wreck..
1-- Miss i am hot and i know it;
its amazing to have a sense of self confidence as a person. But confidence is not the case in her situation. in fact, she might just be so insecure about herself that she uses her body to gain affirmation from men. in other words, she flaunts her assets to anybody that is willing to look. while this might be what attracted you to her in the first place, and it drew you to her like a magnet, you will in the long run realize that its also drawing everyone else. and she isn't willing to stop flaunting her sexiness because that is what she loves to do. Most people want relationships that they feel secure and are sure their partner is exclusively theirs. if that is what you are looking for, find a woman that is willing to show she is all yours. except if ''miss i am jot and i know it'' tickles your fancy- Then by all means, carry on.
2--Miss gold digger
She is soo much in love with you, She loves your beautiful house, your car, your cash, all of your nice things the best way to make her happy is by buying her beautiful things and giving her cash gifts, . Sge might seem in love, but with time, you would realize that she is draining you, taking everything she can from you but gives nothing back in return. no nice conversations, no quality time, all you talk about is the new phone she wants and how Dubai will be a nice place to be. If you happen to o broke, she would leave without even a halfhearted goodbye.
3--Miss too much drama
This woman has drama from all aspect of her life. Drama with family, drama at work, drama with the neighbor, She just have to create a scene wherever she finds herself.And with all these drama she keeps telling you about, it is always the fault of everyone else but herself. She doesn't know how to take responsibility for her errors and takes everything out on everyone. This is the lady that you will always apologize to whether you are at fault or not because you are tired of the drama and she always finds a way to make you the bad guy.
4-- Miss all about me.
To her, relationship is a one way street. everything should be about her, done for her and done because of her.She wants no responsibility at all and doesn't want any role in the relationship. If whatever you are doing does not have to do with her, then it does not concern her. She does not care about whatever you do as long as it is not directly related to her. she sees nothing wrong with this because to her, you being in a relationship with her is the best thing that could ever happen to you.
5-- The emotional baby
This lady is insecure, craves attention, cries over everything and drains all of your energy. She is all round toxic and really really cute. you can not break up with her because you will feel really guilty about it. She hardly knows herself or what she believes in, so she basically depends on you for all her life choices. and mimic all your habits because she cant do anything for herself. Even thinking
6-- The control freak
This woman is dominant and wants to show that she is the supreme being. From choosing what you should eat, to what you should wear, to what you should say or shouldn't say, who you should talk or not. She will try to take over all aspects of your life and you might in the long run, lose touch with yourself and feel less of a person.
With that in mind, we should be realistic that relationships are not about finding the perfect person. That does not exist. relationships are about finding the right person that recognizes their flaws and weaknesses, and are always striving to become better with each passing day together
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